We may have ideals and preferences for women, but they may not be what you are looking for when you fall in love. When you fall in love, it is not because of a characteristic, but because she is she. There will be no further explanation, only her entire being because when you are a loving person because of a trait, you only love that trait and not the person. That trait or characteristic is only a part of the person, but you must love the person as a whole, flaws and all.